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18+community

Sex Toys

176 members (37 online)
NOT A PORN SERVER!!

This server focuses on sex toy and kink EDUCATION, but also serves as a place to meet people, and there are channels for people looking for a partner.

18+ ADULTS ONLY!!

What our server provides:
• Sex toy discussions, reviews, and recommendations
• Partner-finding channels
• Kink education for beginners and experienced members
• Consent, safety, and communication–focused learning
• Open, judgment-free discussions about sexuality and pleasure
• LGBTQ+ inclusive and body-positive environment
• Resource sharing (guides, links, and educational content)
• Community events, discussions, and themed chats
  • bdsm   dating   nsfw   kink   18+
Last Boop: 26 minutes ago
18+roleplay

Femdom Fatale BDSM 18+

86 members (36 online)
Femdom Fatale | BDSM 18+ ⛓️🐾

A safe, welcoming space for Femdoms, Femme Switches, Submissive Mascs, and other Kinksters!

🎃 Grand Opening: November 23, 2025
🎃 LGBTQ+ Femme-Owned & Operated 🌈
🎃 Kink-Friendly | BDSM | Femdoms Welcome ⛓️

🔗 Join Now: https://discord.gg/VNE2v2Muux

❤️‍🔥 What We Offer: ❤️‍🔥

👑 Inclusive & Safe Environment - A supportive space for Dominant Femmes, submissive mascs, and femme Switches alike.
⛓️ Show Off Your Dominance - Yearning to dip your toes in the waters of Femdom? We offer many ways to exercise your dominance, from low to high protocol spaces, punishment and task channels, spaces for your advertisements, and much more!
💐 Breaks From Kink Space & Fun Spaces - Spaces offered to show more of who you are, in or out of kink! These include but are not limited to discussion channels for hobbies, venting, your beloved furry friends, and your favorite memes. Keep the community engaged and active!
💎 Custom Roles & Colors - Special perks for Server Boosters!
📚 BDSM & Kink Education - Veteran members happy to teach and guide in kink discussions. Resources are offered.
🕯️Server Events & Active VC - Get to know those who make this community! Hang out, chat, and have fun together! Plenty of interactive pings to use.
🖤 Support for Extreme Lifestyles - From soft and sweet to more intense kinks.

🚨 18+ ONLY | ID VERIFICATION REQUIRED 🚨

We prioritize safety. Your info is NOT stored—verification ensures an adult only space.

Step into our realm, if you dare~
  • femdom   bdsm   kink   high-protocol   erp
Last Boop: 1 hour ago
18+OTHER

Whips & Whiskers || (18+)

716 members (166 online)
Welcome cuties! We're a female owned, 18+ BDSM education server for the furry community!

Not yet convinced? Here's what we have to offer:

🪪 - Selfie/ID Verification
✔️ - Verification System & Raid Prevention
🎉 - Events & Giveaways
💜 - Chill & Kinky Chats
💬 - Roleplay Channels
🚦 - BDSM Education Channels
👍 - Level & Reaction Roles
🎨 - Artist/Streamer Showcases
🤖 - Fun & Custom Bots
🛠️ - and more to come!

Come in and chill with us and ask questions about irl safe, sane, consensual BDSM education! Remember to be respectful, no matter of others interests!
If you have any questions contact @Kiurym

Want to appeal a ban? Go to -->
https:// discord.gg/PNsDeHHDcW
  • furry   roleplay   bdsm   giveaways   kinky
Last Boop: 1 hour ago
18+other

Kinky Rabbit Hole

100 members (34 online)
✨ Welcome to The Kinky Rabbit Hole – 18+ Only ✨

Curious? Good. That’s how every great adventure starts.
Step into The Kinky Rabbit Hole, a place where conversation flows, connections form, and curiosity is celebrated.

We’re a kink-friendly community with rooms for every mood — from flirty banter to deep discussions, and everything in between. Whether you’re here to learn, explore, or just hang out, you’ll find your place down here.

Feeling bold? We even offer private video lounges for those special one-on-one moments.

Our server includes both SFW and NSFW spaces, unlocking more of the Rabbit Hole as you level up and get to know our community.

So take the leap — drop your intro, join the chat, and see how deep the rabbit hole goes. 🐇💫
  • 18+   bdsm   kink   roleplay   lgbtqia+friendly
Last Boop: 1 hour ago
18+roleplay

Tether and Thorn

237 members (55 online)
Welcome to Tether and Thorn- an amorphous space, designed to accommodate desires and dynamics that rest comfortably along the edges of acceptance. A fluid and attentive realm, where the true power of words can be shared, or inflicted. Where mutual consent forms a doorway to endless narratives.

Tether and Thorn is an online roleplay and kink community, designed to create a space for roleplay enthusiasts with interest in darker and fantasy themes to indulge their desires among other consenting adults. We encourage the safe exploration of more taboo subjects such as non-con and "littles", in addition to working together to create a healthy and secure space for people to experiment with and learn about various kink dynamics and protocols.

We look forward to sharing our space with you, and ask only that you treat others as respectfully as they desire to be treated, and to leave your judgement of others at the doorstep~
  • erp   roleplay   kink   bdsm   adult
Last Boop: 1 hour ago
18+community

🌸The Blanket Fort 🌸

124 members (40 online)
💖 Welcome to The Blanket Fort
An 18+ ID verified Discord community built around comfort, connection, and playful fun. 🧸

The Blanket Fort is a warm, inclusive space for adults who enjoy ageplay and cozy community vibes. This is a non judgmental, consent first environment where you are encouraged to show up as your authentic self.

✨ We welcome:
• Littles and middles
• Caregivers and Bigs
• Ageplayers at any stage of their journey
• 2SLGBTQIA+ members and allies
• Neurodivergent and disabled members
• Kind, respectful adults looking for genuine connection

🧸 Inside the Fort, you will find:
• Cozy chat spaces and low pressure hangouts
• Creative activities like coloring, crafts, and prompts
• Support and processing channels
• Movie nights, games, and themed events
• Fully verified NSFW lounges built on consent and boundaries

🔐 Every member completes private age verification to ensure our 18+ space remains safe, authentic, and respectful.

✨ Whether you are exploring ageplay, nurturing a dynamic, or simply looking for a soft place to belong, The Blanket Fort is a snuggly corner of the internet you can proudly call home. 💕
  • 18+   bdsm   kink   community   2slgbtqia+friendly
Last Boop: 1 hour ago
18+community

𝒯𝒾ℯ ℳℯ 𝒰𝓅

215 members (50 online)
⋆ ˚。⋆୨୧˚────── · · ୨୧ · · ──────˚୨୧⋆。˚ ⋆
𝘞𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘬𝘪𝘴𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘣𝘳𝘶𝘪𝘴𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘥𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘴𝘬𝘪𝘯? ִֶָ. ..𓂃 ࣪ ִֶָ🪽་༘࿐

Hello and welcome to Tie Me Up!, a brand new server with a wide range of channels, kink roles and regular roles to choose from! Complete with friendly helpful staff that are almost always online and available to help!

We are a server catering to more kinkier themes but also cater to little space! Some examples of what we are mainly into being DDLG, CNC, Primal Play, Weapon Play, and masochism/sadism, no matter how extreme Aslong as its between two consenting parties than it's a ok! just a headsup that the NSFW side of the server is hidden behind a verification wall but the rest of the server is easily assessable! we are also LGBTQ+ friendly and also have pluralkit added for those who suffer with DID.

⭑𓂃 a few other facts about our lovely server.

༄.° A special category for our lovely
caregivers, mommies and daddies!

༄.° little space channels including
worksheets that are updated
around every week!

༄.° An eternal slave bot for
you to claim others and
set your dynamics + a marriage bot ˎˊ˗

༄.° Active chats and vc's
+ VC pings and
gaming ˎˊ˗

༄.° A neat angelic theme ˎˊ˗

༄.° A weapons channel to show off your cool weaponry ˎˊ˗

༄.° A confession channel and more! ˎˊ˗

Weather your a hard Dom, soft dom, a switch, bratty sub or service sub we will have a place for you, and who knows. Maybe you'll even meet the perfect companion.

𝑊𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑘𝑖𝑠𝑠 𝑚𝑦 𝑡𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑠 𝑎𝑤𝑎𝑦 𝑎𝑓𝑡𝑒𝑟 𝑟𝑒𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑑𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑚𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑖 𝑎𝑚 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠? . ..𓂃 ࣪ ִֶָ🪽་༘࿐
⋆ ˚。⋆୨୧˚────── · · ୨୧ · · ──────˚୨୧⋆。˚ ⋆
  • kink   bdsm   ddlg   mdlg
Last Boop: 2 hours ago
19+other

Masters and maids 19+

227 members (53 online)

Masters and maids
19+ | NSFW Locked Behind ID
Low and High Protocol
Off Theme | On Theme | VCs
Misogyny | Non-Toxic | Level 2 Boosts
Royal Court Theme
  • bdsm   maledom   femsub   misogyny   kink
Last Boop: 4 hours ago
21+community

Sugar & Spice (21+)

148 members (39 online)
hello! welcome to sugar & spice! we are a new and growing 21+ bdsm server, with a focus on ddlg/cgl and bratting 🫶✨

why should you join? we have...
→ private chats for doms and subs
→ a channel dedicated to brats and brat tamers
→ manual verification to unlock nsfw channels
→ robust nsfw and bdsm sections, ranging from memes to spicy pics
→ a flash and dash channel, for shy members who still want to participate in the fun
→ an open-minded community with neurodiverse and LGBTQ+ staff members
→ activities for littles
→ vc events such as movie nights, cartoons, and games
→ contests, such as photo and art challenges for prizes like discord nitro, paid coloring sheet giveaways, etc.
→ daily fun such as a nsfw qotd, wordle, daily poll
→ fun bots and reaction roles
→ and sooooo much more!!

we strive to be a safe space for all, in addition to making our home away from home a fun place to be. our staff team is extremely active, and our community is exceptionally welcoming. if you're looking for somewhere to be 100% unapologetically yourself, feel no need to search further ♡

join us! We're so excited to meet you.
  • bdsm   ddlg   nsfw   brat   kink
Last Boop: 10 hours ago
18+OTHER

Aurora Dream

968 members (119 online)
‎ ¸„.-•~¹°”ˆ˜¨ 𝐀𝐔𝐑𝐎𝐑𝐀 𝐃𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐌 ¨˜ˆ”°¹~•-.„¸‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎

⸜(。˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝ Heya there! Are you looking for a hotel to check in?

We gladly introduce our BDSM server into you! But heyyy please know that we are 18+ server okay?! So you are a subject of forced verification by staff if we find your behavior as suspicious!!!

This is FEMDOM server, by "femdom" it means Female Dominance which means no male dom nor male switch. We treat females as our superior, same goes with femsub.
We don't welcome:
𝐔𝐍𝐃𝐄𝐑𝐀𝐆𝐄
𝐅𝐈𝐍𝐃𝐎𝐌
𝐌𝐀𝐋𝐄𝐃𝐎𝐌
𝐌𝐀𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐂𝐇
𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐋𝐄𝐑
𝐑𝐀𝐂𝐈𝐒𝐓
𝐊𝐈𝐋𝐋𝐄𝐑

𝐇𝐄𝐑𝐄𝐒 𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐖𝐄 𝐏𝐑𝐎𝐕𝐈𝐃𝐄𝐒 𝐈𝐍 𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐇𝐎𝐓𝐄𝐋
- Optional AGE VERIFICATION (limited channels access for non age verified)
- Silly funny things •ᴗ•
- Fun economy bots, and also BDSM bots~
- We don't have free nitro giveaway :sob: but we have a free welcome drink :3
- Rooms for Doms / Switches / sub exclusive chats.
- Server's safewords feature
- Server's safezone feature
- Real human verification :3
- Freedom of speech
- Last but not least, we provides a warm welcome (づ ᴗ _ᴗ)づ♡

If you are in rush / a downbad, get out (:

If you are still underage, please comeback to us once you have your ID okay? We don't like doing it in a rough way unless you asked for it.
  • NSFW   BDSM   18+   ERP   Aurora-dream
Last Boop: 12 hours ago
18+community

Red&Black - A Lesbian Retreat

163 members (13 online)
Welcome!

This is a minimalistic server for kinky lesbians to find each other and have fun. Minimum moderation and no judgement
  • lesbian   wlw   kink   bdsm
Last Boop: 1 day ago
18+OTHER

neverland

229 members (55 online)
Welcome to Neverland- where lost girls, boys, and non-binary toys can gather and meet Doms of all types. Neverland is a Medium Protocol BDSM server, catering to MaleDom, FemDom, and any other D/s dynamics. (Switch Inclusive!) ✨

MANDITORY AGE VERIFICATION!
A growing community looking for core members!
Diverse sexual orientations & gender identities are welcome!
Pre-existing dynamics will be respected!
Medium protocol chats with a Dom/Domme > Switch > Submissive heirarchy!
Heavy enforcement of RACK, PRICK, SSC, and the Traffic Light System to guarantee safety & respect for all!
Dedicated, diverse moderation team!
Open to newcomers, with education forums and channels to help you learn all about kink!
"Looking For" channel to find someone with your interests!
Frequent events- Game nights, matchmaking, kink play, and more!
  • nsfw   bdsm   kink   femdom   maledom
Last Boop: 3 days ago
18+OTHER

★ Kinky Nights ★

3035 members (592 online)
Welcome to Kinky Nights

We are a German BDSM server with a nice & open community.
Here you can talk about all kinds of things, whether it's normal everyday life or BDSM and more.
Everyone is welcome here! From people who are curious and have never had anything to do with BDSM or the like, to those who are experienced in the BDSM scene, we are also completely LGBTQ+ open. We don't just talk about kinky stuff all day long, but we also play games in the voice chats or just talk about all kinds of things, including movie nights and more. We have an extra verified role, with which after you have verified yourself, you get access to an extra area where you can exchange your own kinky pictures or normal teases/nudes (of course on a voluntary basis), we also have a verified voice area where you can do all kinds of things, but what exactly you can find out for yourself & try out.

We offer (with us you can..):
Chatting & chilling (both in text and voice chats)
Get to know people
Role system (Self Roles) (SFW, Kink and BDSM roles)
active voice chats
NSFW area
Verified 18+ area ( Verified Nudes & Voice Chats )
and much more

The server is 18+

Just drop by and say hello in #mainchat, everyone is welcome

We are looking forward to seeing you.
  • nsfw   bdsm   kink   german   deutsch
Last Boop: 4 days ago
18+roleplay

18+ ERP

22 members (8 online)
Me and my gf have made a server to meet females interested in a group rp with us. We want to try erping with another person, so please feel free to dm us and chat if you'd like to do some stuff with us
  • 18+   erp   group-rp   pokemon   bdsm
Last Boop: 5 days ago
21+community

The Villainous Lair(21+)

69 members (22 online)
Welcome to our Dungeon filled with Villains and devils from far and wide.

Enjoy degradation? Harsh rules? Tasks? Wanna have a place to share in your depravity?
Bdsm Community operations are leaning towards SSC practices, some RACK of the more extreme side but tread lightly.

Wanna be ogled and complemented? Wanna make someone lick your boot? Crack the whip and visit us!
Puppy girls and cat girls needed!
Collars and paddles for the mindless.
Lewd? open? like sending body shots and getting compliments? Like making games and having people play? join up we want more active people!
Like nice sexy voices? join us
Like to randomly show and see tiddies? join us
enjoy Hypno and knives? join us
wanna flirt and fool around? join us!
Remember respect is key. boundaries, respect, and consent. we're all verified adults. be chill and kinky. 420 friendly.
  • community   bdsm   kink   nsfw   420
Last Boop: 12 days ago
18+community

MISTRESS MANSION

69 members (11 online)
MISTRESS MANSION
A laid-back, adults-only community where power dynamics meet real connection.

🜲 Mistresses guide
ᛝ Subs engage and grow

🔥 Structure, trust, and chemistry

This isn’t a cold or distant server. It’s a space to talk, laugh, learn, and actually get to know each other — while keeping clear dynamics and mutual respect.

What makes the Mansion different:
🔸 Custom bots for fun tasks, routines, and structure
🔸 Open chats, shared vibes, and active interaction
🔸 Clear rules that keep things safe, relaxed, and welcoming

Whether you lead, follow, or are just exploring, you’re here to connect — not perform.

Good energy only. Real people. Real dynamics.
⚠️ No Findom or Finsub

Welcome to the Mansion.

  • femdom   nsfw   bdsm   sub   mistress
Last Boop: 12 days ago
18-25community

Harem Domain

12 members (7 online)
Interested in serving another? Are you a maid / pet / slave? I am a Master searching for the perfect little submissives. If you think that could be you, come on and join. I am looking for those that are AFAB and still female. It would be best if you are in the US and interested in things going IRL. You should also be fine with other females as this is for a harem. Don't worry though, you will get plenty of attention from me.

Further information in the server, if you have questions ask me. I am looking forward to your service.
  • master   dom   submissive   irl   bdsm
Last Boop: 22 days ago
18+OTHER

The Princess Castle DDLG 18+

115 members (46 online)
The Princess Castle DDLG 18+🍭🍫🍬

Welcome to The Princess Castle 🏰 We're new! 11/15/24 opening day 🎀

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ LGBTQ Owned and Operated! 🌈 And kink friendly! ⛓️

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ Cute channels for showing off your little or Daddy stuff! 🧚🏻‍♀️

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ Inclusive, safe, and uplifting environment! 🧜🏻‍♀️

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ Game bots and pings to keep the community active! 👸🏻

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ Custom roles and colors for Server Boosters! 🧁

🚨 This server is protected by an ID Verification process. We do not keep information, we just keep minors out. You will only access the rest of the server after you verify. 🚨
  • Ddlg   kink   bdsm   roleplay   mdlg
Last Boop: 53 days ago
18+OTHER

Dominance Kingdom

261 members (59 online)
Welcome to Dominance Kingdom. (18+ Server)

ALL WELCOME

✨ Male or Female

All Dominants', Switches', subs', eagerly accepted.

Dominance Kingdom caters to all things BDSM,

Experienced Staff.. NEEDED

Are you a Dominant in need of a subbie.
A subbie in need of a Dominant.

🌟WANTED INSIDE-
🌟 Dominants -
🌟 Switches -
🌟 Submissives -

💛 Respect, (Honorifics) are Mandatory for all submissives.

What is offered:

✨ Private Rooms for your D/s use.
✨ Chats for all.
✨ Dominant's to Obey
✨ Domme's to admire.
✨ Subs to be used
✨🆔 Verified NSFW Channels.
✨🆔 Verified NSFW Private Rooms.
✨ Role play
✨ LGBTQ Friendly

18+ server, with optional Verification.
However you may be asked for verification at any time.

The Kingdom awaits your Entry
  • bdsm   kinks   maledom   femdom   nsfw
Last Boop: 61 days ago
18+OTHER

Collars & Coercion 18+

1774 members (148 online)
❗ Welcome to Collars & Coercion ❗

Looking for something fresh? Or some fresh meat perhaps? Collars & Coercion is a maledom server run by individuals who've been in the lifestyle a while. They've been around the block and are striving to create an environment for you.

Join us to degrade the inferiors and raise the Superiors to the pedestal they deserve, worshipping and serving as needed. Inferiors can be ANY gender, we are inclusive! Superiors of the server are Male (transinclusive) only.

There's so many options for maledom out there, why us?
➡︎ NO VERIFIED WALL. Come get comfortable with us and the server before choosing to verify.
➡︎ Our server admins have many years of real life kink experience and a desire to guide and teach.
➡︎ An optional Vetting process to determine model kinksters, those with experience, and those willing to teach.
➡︎ An optional Verified process to ensure sex/age of those you are chatting with.
➡︎ An ownership system that understands collars can be both temporary or long lasting - you have control we aren't going to hold you back from claiming.
➡︎ Rooms open for public ERP. We know you like to be watched.
➡︎(For Verified Members) CNC spaces where the cunts have already given up their rights.
➡︎Poly friendly! Co-own collars, roles for open relationships, etc.
➡︎ A server economy for fun, with several interesting things you can buy.

We aren't here to hold your hand - that's a privilege only the Superiors can give you if you earn it. Step on in and enjoy the space to explore your dark kinks.
  • erp   misogyny   cnc   bdsm   maledom
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