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Last Boop: 46 minutes ago
18+OTHER

Pet Training Academy

142 members (40 online)
☽⋆━─━────ʚ♡ɞ────━─━☽⋆
𝒫𝑒𝓉 𝒯𝓇𝒶𝒾𝓃𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝒜𝒸𝒶𝒹𝑒𝓂𝓎
☽⋆━─━────ʚ♡ɞ────━─━☽⋆

We Are a roleplay 18+ verified community. Providing an active staff and welcoming community!

✨𝕎𝕖 𝕠𝕗𝕗𝕖𝕣:✨
⤷ Safe, open atmosphere with many LGBTQIA+ members!
⤷ STICKERS!!!! A reward system for the pets of the server!
⤷ A highly active and friendly moderation and support team
⤷ Weekly social events for all members! Including movie nights and game nights!
⤷ Picture and selfie channels!
⤷ Venting and public roleplay channels!
⤷ Public and private roleplays! (NSFW and SFW)

AND MORE!!!

Come visit, maybe even stay! Come join us!
  • kink   petplay   ds
Last Boop: 48 minutes ago
18+roleplay

Femdom Fatale BDSM 18+

140 members (47 online)
Femdom Fatale | BDSM 18+ ⛓️🐾

A safe, welcoming space for Femdoms, Femme Switches, Submissive Mascs, and other Kinksters!

🎃 Grand Opening: November 23, 2025
🎃 LGBTQ+ Femme-Owned & Operated 🌈
🎃 Kink-Friendly | BDSM | Femdoms Welcome ⛓️

🔗 Join Now: https://discord.gg/VNE2v2Muux

❤️‍🔥 What We Offer: ❤️‍🔥

👑 Inclusive & Safe Environment - A supportive space for Dominant Femmes, submissive mascs, and femme Switches alike.
⛓️ Show Off Your Dominance - Yearning to dip your toes in the waters of Femdom? We offer many ways to exercise your dominance, from low to high protocol spaces, punishment and task channels, spaces for your advertisements, and much more!
💐 Breaks From Kink Space & Fun Spaces - Spaces offered to show more of who you are, in or out of kink! These include but are not limited to discussion channels for hobbies, venting, your beloved furry friends, and your favorite memes. Keep the community engaged and active!
💎 Custom Roles & Colors - Special perks for Server Boosters!
📚 BDSM & Kink Education - Veteran members happy to teach and guide in kink discussions. Resources are offered.
🕯️Server Events & Active VC - Get to know those who make this community! Hang out, chat, and have fun together! Plenty of interactive pings to use.
🖤 Support for Extreme Lifestyles - From soft and sweet to more intense kinks.

🚨 18+ ONLY | ID VERIFICATION REQUIRED 🚨

We prioritize safety. Your info is NOT stored—verification ensures an adult only space.

Step into our realm, if you dare~
  • femdom   bdsm   kink   high-protocol   erp
Last Boop: 53 minutes ago
18+other

Kinky Rabbit Hole

109 members (37 online)
✨ Welcome to The Kinky Rabbit Hole – 18+ Only ✨

Curious? Good. That’s how every great adventure starts.
Step into The Kinky Rabbit Hole, a place where conversation flows, connections form, and curiosity is celebrated.

We’re a kink-friendly community with rooms for every mood — from flirty banter to deep discussions, and everything in between. Whether you’re here to learn, explore, or just hang out, you’ll find your place down here.

Feeling bold? We even offer private video lounges for those special one-on-one moments.

Our server includes both SFW and NSFW spaces, unlocking more of the Rabbit Hole as you level up and get to know our community.

So take the leap — drop your intro, join the chat, and see how deep the rabbit hole goes. 🐇💫
  • 18+   bdsm   kink   roleplay   lgbtqia+friendly
Last Boop: 1 hour ago
21+OTHER

Celestial Cauldron

115 members (48 online)
🌜You’ve been summoned to take a stroll down the wilder side of your mind and desires in Celestial Cauldron 🌛

Here, we love freely, openly, and without judgment! Come be initiated into an ID VERIFIED 21+, LGBTQIA+, D.I.D friendly server, unafraid of the spicy side of life.

Double Bubble Toil & Trouble

⭐️ Age 21+ ID Verified Server with Level Locked Channels for safety & comfort
⭐️ Female Owned, LGBTQIA+, Polyamory Friendly Safe Haven
⭐️ Neurodivergent & D.I.D/Plural Kit Sanctuary
⭐️ Level & Role Locked Optional NSFW/BDSM Safe Spaces
⭐️Tons of Topic Channels & Games including the Occult, True Crime, 4/20, TTRPGs, Music, Truth or Dare, & Cards Against Humanity
⭐️Partnership Opportunities


**Come Slip into the Dark Side**

Celestial Cauldron

https://discord.gg/FsXUbKVSFt
  • DID   Witchy   Adult   Kink   Chill
Last Boop: 1 hour ago
21+community

🚀The Cosmos 21+🚀

144 members (52 online)
⋆。°✩ Welcome to The Cosmos 21+ ✩°。⋆

Out in the quiet of the cosmos, there’s a little corner of the galaxy where the rules are looser, the laughter is louder, and the conversations get… a little more interesting.

If you’re the kind of soul who enjoys playful chaos, nerdiness, and a touch of mischief, you may have just found the place you’ve been drifting toward.

Inside our orbit you’ll find:
☆ A playful, mischievous community where wit, curiosity, and chaos collide
☆ Friendly, active staff who keep the ship steady while the crew has fun
☆ Flirting, teasing, banter, and late-night conversations that wander into dangerous territory
☆ A private NSFW sector for those who enjoy the saucier side of space
☆ Interactive bots for games, mischief, and cosmic distractions
☆ A proudly inclusive, LGBTQ+ friendly atmosphere where everyone is welcome to be exactly who they are

Here, strangers become crewmates, conversations turn electric, and the night tends to last a little longer than expected.

So drift a little closer.
Dock your ship.
Introduce yourself.

After all… the galaxy is vast.
But the most interesting things tend to happen behind closed cabin doors.
  • community   nerds   kink   funny
Last Boop: 1 hour ago
18+other

Realm of Chains 18+

46 members (23 online)
Welcome… to The Realm of Chains.

Beyond this threshold lies a network forged not of iron alone, but of connection, ambition, and unseen power. Every link you share, every path you follow, binds you deeper into the ever-expanding web that stretches across this realm.

Some chains are strong. Others are fragile. All of them lead somewhere.

Here, lost wanderers become architects of connection. Communities rise, collide, and intertwine. Knowledge travels like whispers through the dark, carried along links that refuse to break.

But tread carefully… for not every chain leads to light.

Forge. Bind. Expand.

Your place in the Realm awaits.
𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟𓎟

A Summons to the Wayward & Wild of Spirit

Why shouldst thou join this curious court, thou askest?

✧ Our server stands out with its old royal court theme, join as a Dom and become a Duke/duchess

✧ An on theme hierarchy channel. Where your title truly matters. Be sure to address the noble class above you correctly to save face in court standing.

✧ An off theme SFW and NSFW for when you are feeling a urge to be on even footing

✧ Be sure to partake in the uprising where even the most dignified member of the court can unleash their inner scoundrel (brat) do be sure to watch for rouge wranglers (brat tamers) who may lead you to a battle of quips.

✧seeking a courtly love that will have sonnet made to bring the realm to tears? try our courting room channel

✧ wish to Meddle within your own rank? Be welcomed to your own channel where those above or below you will not be granted access.

✧ Above all else grow a community within the realm, make friends not foes. share pictures when you break your fast (breakfast pics) let us see your wild companions (pets)

we can not wait to make your acquaintance!
  • kink   hierarchy   bdsm   lgbtqia+friendly   high-protocol-section
Last Boop: 1 hour ago
21+community

Sugar & Spice (21+)

165 members (30 online)
hello! welcome to sugar & spice! we are a new and growing 21+ bdsm server, with a focus on ddlg/cgl and bratting 🫶✨

why should you join? we have...
→ private chats for doms and subs
→ a channel dedicated to brats and brat tamers
→ manual verification to unlock nsfw channels
→ robust nsfw and bdsm sections, ranging from memes to spicy pics
→ a flash and dash channel, for shy members who still want to participate in the fun
→ an open-minded community with neurodiverse and LGBTQ+ staff members
→ activities for littles
→ vc events such as movie nights, cartoons, and games
→ contests, such as photo and art challenges for prizes like discord nitro, paid coloring sheet giveaways, etc.
→ daily fun such as a nsfw qotd, wordle, daily poll
→ fun bots and reaction roles
→ and sooooo much more!!

we strive to be a safe space for all, in addition to making our home away from home a fun place to be. our staff team is extremely active, and our community is exceptionally welcoming. if you're looking for somewhere to be 100% unapologetically yourself, feel no need to search further ♡

join us! We're so excited to meet you.
  • bdsm   ddlg   nsfw   brat   kink
Last Boop: 2 hours ago
18+OTHER

neverland

256 members (44 online)
Welcome to Neverland- where lost girls, boys, and non-binary toys can gather and meet Doms of all types. Neverland is a Medium Protocol BDSM server, catering to MaleDom, FemDom, and any other D/s dynamics. (Switch Inclusive!) ✨

MANDITORY AGE VERIFICATION!
A growing community looking for core members!
Diverse sexual orientations & gender identities are welcome!
Pre-existing dynamics will be respected!
Medium protocol chats with a Dom/Domme > Switch > Submissive heirarchy!
Heavy enforcement of RACK, PRICK, SSC, and the Traffic Light System to guarantee safety & respect for all!
Dedicated, diverse moderation team!
Open to newcomers, with education forums and channels to help you learn all about kink!
"Looking For" channel to find someone with your interests!
Frequent events- Game nights, matchmaking, kink play, and more!
  • nsfw   bdsm   kink   femdom   maledom
Last Boop: 2 hours ago
18+community

✧━𝓢𝒾𝓇𝑒𝓃𝓈 𝓒𝒶𝓁𝓁━✧

202 members (40 online)
A safe, respectful space where femininity is celebrated and empowered. Built around consensual Femdom dynamics, our community prioritizes communication, boundaries, and authenticity—so you can relax and be yourself.

Whether you’re a Domme, switch, or sub, you’ll find a place to explore, connect, and grow with like-minded people.

What we offer:
❒ Active staff & well-moderated environment
❒ Inclusive, welcoming space for all identities
❒ Detailed roles for dynamics, kinks & limits
❒ Private ticket system for support & verification
❒ Fun bots, games & community activities
❒ ID-gated channels, including educational content
  • 18+   femdom   bdsm   domme   kink
Last Boop: 3 hours ago
18+community

❥ ʙᴇʟᴏᴠᴇᴅ & ʙᴏᴜɴᴅ

64 members (23 online)
💕Beloved and Bound
Welcome to a new mischievous, safe space community where you can relax and be yourself. Whether you join just for fun, companionship or just to find some new friends, beloved and bound is the kink server for you!
What we offer:
💬 Female owned/All female staff members
💙 Safe, judgement free environment
💗 Tons of roles to express yourself with
🎀 Simply ID verification for everyone’s comfort and safety
What we are looking for:
🌟 People wanting to make new friends, find a new community or looking for a companion
🌟 Kind, respectful, active members
If that sounds like you, what are you waiting for? Come join today! I promise we don’t bite (unless you want us to)
  • bdsm   kink   18+   petplay   community
Last Boop: 4 hours ago
18+gaming

🖤⋆。゚☾ 𝔾𝕒𝕣𝕕𝕖𝕟 𝕆𝕗 𝕊𝕚𝕟 ☽゚。⋆🖤

545 members (61 online)
🌙 Garden of Sin – 18+ Social, Gaming, & Creator Community 🌙

Garden of Sin is an 18+ server with a little bit of everything. We offer gaming chats, areas to find people to play with, content creator promotion and support, a stoner-friendly corner for the gardeners, and fun server games to keep you entertained. You’ll also find educational spaces and supportive chats, but overall, we’re just a safe, chill place to make friends and be yourself.

✨ What we offer:
• Gaming chats & group finding channels
• Content creator support & promotion
• Stoner-friendly spaces
• Fun bots & server games
• Voice chats & events
• A safe, inclusive environment for all

Come hang out with us and find your community.
  • community   gaming   chat   420   kink
Last Boop: 8 hours ago
18+OTHER

★ Kinky Nights ★

3068 members (227 online)
Welcome to Kinky Nights

We are a German BDSM server with a nice & open community.
Here you can talk about all kinds of things, whether it's normal everyday life or BDSM and more.
Everyone is welcome here! From people who are curious and have never had anything to do with BDSM or the like, to those who are experienced in the BDSM scene, we are also completely LGBTQ+ open. We don't just talk about kinky stuff all day long, but we also play games in the voice chats or just talk about all kinds of things, including movie nights and more. We have an extra verified role, with which after you have verified yourself, you get access to an extra area where you can exchange your own kinky pictures or normal teases/nudes (of course on a voluntary basis), we also have a verified voice area where you can do all kinds of things, but what exactly you can find out for yourself & try out.

We offer (with us you can..):
Chatting & chilling (both in text and voice chats)
Get to know people
Role system (Self Roles) (SFW, Kink and BDSM roles)
active voice chats
NSFW area
Verified 18+ area ( Verified Nudes & Voice Chats )
and much more

The server is 18+

Just drop by and say hello in #mainchat, everyone is welcome

We are looking forward to seeing you.
  • nsfw   bdsm   kink   german   deutsch
Last Boop: 11 hours ago
18+community

𝒯𝒾ℯ ℳℯ 𝒰𝓅

235 members (39 online)
⋆ ˚。⋆୨୧˚────── · · ୨୧ · · ──────˚୨୧⋆。˚ ⋆
𝘞𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘬𝘪𝘴𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘣𝘳𝘶𝘪𝘴𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘥𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘴𝘬𝘪𝘯? ִֶָ. ..𓂃 ࣪ ִֶָ🪽་༘࿐

Hello and welcome to Tie Me Up!, a brand new server with a wide range of channels, kink roles and regular roles to choose from! Complete with friendly helpful staff that are almost always online and available to help!

We are a server catering to more kinkier themes but also cater to little space! Some examples of what we are mainly into being DDLG, CNC, Primal Play, Weapon Play, and masochism/sadism, no matter how extreme Aslong as its between two consenting parties than it's a ok! just a headsup that the NSFW side of the server is hidden behind a verification wall but the rest of the server is easily assessable! we are also LGBTQ+ friendly and also have pluralkit added for those who suffer with DID.

⭑𓂃 a few other facts about our lovely server.

༄.° A special category for our lovely
caregivers, mommies and daddies!

༄.° little space channels including
worksheets that are updated
around every week!

༄.° An eternal slave bot for
you to claim others and
set your dynamics + a marriage bot ˎˊ˗

༄.° Active chats and vc's
+ VC pings and
gaming ˎˊ˗

༄.° A neat angelic theme ˎˊ˗

༄.° A weapons channel to show off your cool weaponry ˎˊ˗

༄.° A confession channel and more! ˎˊ˗

Weather your a hard Dom, soft dom, a switch, bratty sub or service sub we will have a place for you, and who knows. Maybe you'll even meet the perfect companion.

𝑊𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑘𝑖𝑠𝑠 𝑚𝑦 𝑡𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑠 𝑎𝑤𝑎𝑦 𝑎𝑓𝑡𝑒𝑟 𝑟𝑒𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑑𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑚𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑖 𝑎𝑚 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠? . ..𓂃 ࣪ ִֶָ🪽་༘࿐
⋆ ˚。⋆୨୧˚────── · · ୨୧ · · ──────˚୨୧⋆。˚ ⋆
  • kink   bdsm   ddlg   mdlg
Last Boop: 12 hours ago
18+community

Smut Sluts

25 members (15 online)
♡ Welcome to Smut Sluts! ♡
Don't be a Little Stranger, come play with us! Join our naughty book club, or explore a new kinky side. This is a safe, consent-forward community centered around both books and kink.

Our Server Includes:
✶ Community areas where our Smut Lovers and Sluts can interact
✶ Specialized bookworm channels for FF, dark romance, and queer lit
✶ Kink Education
✶ BDSM Confessional and Flash Photos
✶ Public Punishments VC
✶ Little & Pet Play Areas
& More!

Channels are locked behind ID verification, and you must prove you're 18+ to pass the welcome page. We allow a lot, and are heavily moderated as a result.
  • community   books   kink   lgbtqia   ageplay
Last Boop: 18 hours ago
18+community

🌸The Blanket Fort 🌸

139 members (50 online)
💖 Welcome to The Blanket Fort
An 18+ ID verified Discord community built around comfort, connection, and playful fun. 🧸

The Blanket Fort is a warm, inclusive space for adults who enjoy ageplay and cozy community vibes. This is a non judgmental, consent first environment where you are encouraged to show up as your authentic self.

✨ We welcome:
• Littles and middles
• Caregivers and Bigs
• Ageplayers at any stage of their journey
• 2SLGBTQIA+ members and allies
• Neurodivergent and disabled members
• Kind, respectful adults looking for genuine connection

🧸 Inside the Fort, you will find:
• Cozy chat spaces and low pressure hangouts
• Creative activities like coloring, crafts, and prompts
• Support and processing channels
• Movie nights, games, and themed events
• Fully verified NSFW lounges built on consent and boundaries

🔐 Every member completes private age verification to ensure our 18+ space remains safe, authentic, and respectful.

✨ Whether you are exploring ageplay, nurturing a dynamic, or simply looking for a soft place to belong, The Blanket Fort is a snuggly corner of the internet you can proudly call home. 💕
  • 18+   bdsm   kink   community   2slgbtqia+friendly
Last Boop: 1 day ago
21+community

The Villainous Lair(21+)

62 members (17 online)
Welcome to our Dungeon filled with Villains and devils from far and wide.

Enjoy degradation? Harsh rules? Tasks? Wanna have a place to share in your depravity?
Bdsm Community operations are leaning towards SSC practices, some RACK of the more extreme side but tread lightly.

Wanna be ogled and complemented? Wanna make someone lick your boot? Crack the whip and visit us!
Puppy girls and cat girls needed!
Collars and paddles for the mindless.
Lewd? open? like sending body shots and getting compliments? Like making games and having people play? join up we want more active people!
Like nice sexy voices? join us
Like to randomly show and see tiddies? join us
enjoy Hypno and knives? join us
wanna flirt and fool around? join us!
Remember respect is key. boundaries, respect, and consent. we're all verified adults. be chill and kinky. 420 friendly.
  • community   bdsm   kink   nsfw   420
Last Boop: 6 days ago
18+roleplay

Tether and Thorn

297 members (51 online)
Welcome to Tether and Thorn- an amorphous space, designed to accommodate desires and dynamics that rest comfortably along the edges of acceptance. A fluid and attentive realm, where the true power of words can be shared, or inflicted. Where mutual consent forms a doorway to endless narratives.

Tether and Thorn is an online roleplay and kink community, designed to create a space for roleplay enthusiasts with interest in darker and fantasy themes to indulge their desires among other consenting adults. We encourage the safe exploration of more taboo subjects such as non-con and "littles", in addition to working together to create a healthy and secure space for people to experiment with and learn about various kink dynamics and protocols.

We look forward to sharing our space with you, and ask only that you treat others as respectfully as they desire to be treated, and to leave your judgement of others at the doorstep~
  • erp   roleplay   kink   bdsm   adult
Last Boop: 19 days ago
18+OTHER

Pivot

706 members (68 online)
°。 **Ready to Pivot into something new?**

°。 **Pivot** is a 25+ adult server that thrives on user-created content — your words, your voice, your kinks.

°。 What makes our server special? Our people: we’re freaks, geeks, artists, and more.

°。 What keeps our NERDS cumming back?

°。**Non-Toxic Atmosphere**: Moderated to ensure a positive and respectful space.
°。 **Exciting Events**: From sexy readings and kink classes to movie nights and social games, there's usually something happening.
°。 **Resourceful & Creative Membership**: Share your writing, art, music, and more—your filthy creativity is celebrated here!
°。 **Discovery**: Dive into whatever kinks fit your fancy and discover new things to add to the list. VCs, playrooms, flash and dash, smutty stories and more!
°。 **Safety**: Secure environment with age verified members.

°。 Looking for a welcoming space to explore, create, and have kinky fun? Come to connect, stay for the community!

discord.gg/pivot
  • nsfw   adult   kink   sex   18+
Last Boop: 51 days ago
18+community

Dollhouse ¹⁸⁺🎀

396 members (105 online)
᧔⚬᧓
Dollhouse welcomes you

𐙚 𓂃 ʚ lgbtqia+ owned · ♡
𐙚 𓂃 ʚ id-gated level lock nsfw · ♡
𐙚 𓂃 ʚ semi-active community with coquette aesthetics · ♡
︶⊹︶︶୨୧︶︶⊹︶
𐙚 𓂃 ʚ kink + bdsm learner friendly · ♡
𐙚 𓂃 ʚ cgl, abdl, petplay safespace · ♡
𐙚 𓂃 ʚ 420 + lgbtqia+ friendly · ♡
︶⊹︶︶୨୧︶︶⊹︶
𐙚 𓂃 ʚ weekly agere activities · ♡
𐙚 𓂃 ʚ giveaways + monthly themed events · ♡
𐙚 𓂃 ʚ kinky roles + emotes + stickers · ♡
︶⊹︶︶୨୧︶︶⊹︶
𐙚 𓂃 ʚ weekly agere activities · ♡
𐙚 𓂃 ʚ giveaways + monthly themed events · ♡
𐙚 𓂃 ʚ kinky roles + emotes + stickers · ♡
  • active   agere   kink   safespace   fun
Last Boop: 67 days ago
18+community

Femdom Wonderland

548 members (68 online)
*✨ Looking for a world where fantasy meets desire? ✨*

*Look no more! Welcome to* ***Femdom Wonderland*!** *Step beyond the veil of the ordinary and into a whimsical, seductive sanctuary inspired by Alice in Wonderland. Whether you're drawn by the thrill of Femdom, the comfort of connection, or simply a cozy space to unwind—our realm welcomes you.*

***💋 Curious? Craving? Come sip tea with us and stay for the charm.***

❤️ Explore a surreal, wonderland-inspired escape
❤️ Delight in a growing collection of adorable, expressive emotes
❤️ Enjoy optional verification and receive an exclusive currency bonus
❤️ Interact with engaging bots that bring life to every corner
❤️ Femdom reigns supreme—where devotion meets desire
❤️ Strictly no tolerance for Findom, ageplay, or raceplay
❤️ DM requests unlock at level 5, and ownership begins at level 10

***Surrender to curiosity. Let the adventure begin.***

🔗 Join us now! - https://discord.gg/PBThxkD8Sn
  • femdom   roleplay   kink   rp   gaming
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