hello! welcome to sugar & spice! we are a new and growing 21+ bdsm server, with a focus on ddlg/cgl and bratting 🫶✨

why should you join? we have...
→ private chats for doms and subs
→ a channel dedicated to brats and brat tamers
→ manual verification to unlock nsfw channels
→ robust nsfw and bdsm sections, ranging from memes to spicy pics
→ a flash and dash channel, for shy members who still want to participate in the fun
→ an open-minded community with neurodiverse and LGBTQ+ staff members
→ activities for littles
→ vc events such as movie nights, cartoons, and games
→ contests, such as photo and art challenges for prizes like discord nitro, paid coloring sheet giveaways, etc.
→ daily fun such as a nsfw qotd, wordle, daily poll
→ fun bots and reaction roles
→ and sooooo much more!!

we strive to be a safe space for all, in addition to making our home away from home a fun place to be. our staff team is extremely active, and our community is exceptionally welcoming. if you're looking for somewhere to be 100% unapologetically yourself, feel no need to search further ♡

join us! We're so excited to meet you.