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dating Servers

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Last Boop: 32 minutes ago
18+OTHER

The Cuddle Puddle

120 members (39 online)
‧₊˚✧[Welcome!]✧˚₊‧

彡 We are an 18+ only community based around vrchat and some other games that we sometimes host events for! But mostly its just a place for people who don't like overcrowded servers / vrchat lobbies, I'd say were a tight knit friend group thats open to new comers! 𓍯


𓍯 ִֶָ♡₊˚ 🦢・₊✧ 18 + ONLY

𓍯 ִֶָ♡₊˚ 🦢・₊✧ Age verification and an anti bot verification ( press one button, holy smokes no bots )

𓍯 ִֶָ♡₊˚ 🦢・₊✧ Must like cuddles


彡 in any case you will find alot of different people, sometimes you will talk and talk with someone but other cases you might just not fit but you will always have a place here no matter who and what you are ღ


₊ ⊹ ᶻz !! Creative things!! ␥

𓍯 ִֶָ♡₊˚ 🦢・₊✧ a whole bunch of different roles and colours to choose from

𓍯 ִֶָ♡₊˚ 🦢・₊✧ we host events where we just talk and chill or if were all mutes for the day we just world hop!

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The rest is up to your own imagination, make friends, talk for a minute, share your vrchat photos, be an IDIOT? but be you!!!
  • dating   18+   lgbtq+   gaming   cuddles
Last Boop: 4 hours ago
18+OTHER

The Basement ୨♡୧

1210 members (63 online)
18+ Femdom, with no maledoms. ♡

→ Active female doms looking for subs.
→ Mandatory verification to ensure server safety.
→ Plenty of SFW and NSFW channels, along with emotes and roles.
→ Non strict server allowing some toxicity.
  • femdom   nsfw   egirl   hentai   dating
Last Boop: 11 hours ago
28+OTHER

30+ Single Gamers & Nerds Connections Corner

942 members (218 online)
A fun and safe place for single gamers & nerds who are 30 and older to chat, make connections, friends, and hopefully more! We are a mostly SFW place, but we are also all adults here so you may see some lewd content. Everyone is welcome to join! We do our best to keep it fun and cozy! No hate or bullying of any sort will be tolerated, please reach out to, or tag staff if you ever have any issues or questions while in the server! We hope to see you soon!
  • gaming   dating   adults   nerds   community
Last Boop: 21 hours ago
18+community

Conservative 18+

136 members (23 online)
Conservative 18+ is a vibrant, adult-only Discord community for right-wing individuals to connect, discuss politics, share ideas, and engage in lively debates in a safe, like-minded space. Join us to explore conservative values and build connections!
  • conservative   social   dating   18+   nsfw
Last Boop: 1 day ago
18+community

Jinx, but Festive 🎄

3240 members (617 online)
꒰ა ‧ —————⋅⋆‧˚ `🌙` ˚‧⋆⋅————— ‧ ໒꒱
A chill space for adults (18+) to hang out, game together, and make new connections. Whether you’re here to squad up, chat, or even find someone special, Jinx is your spot. 💬🎮💘
⚠️ No porn — we keep it fun, safe, and community-focused!

• ₊˚໒ **__ 𝑱𝒊𝒏𝒙 18+ !__** ꒱ •
𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 ・𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐦𝐞 ・𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐫𝐨
> 𓆩`⭐️`𓆪﹕ ~~𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐭𝐬~~ **&** 𝐬𝐞𝐦𝐢-𝐭𝐨𝐱
> 𓆩`✅`𓆪﹕ 𝟏𝟖+ 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 __𝐚𝐯𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞__・`💛`﹕੭˚₊
> 𓆩`📌`𓆪﹕**200+ 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐬 & 150+** __𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐫𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐬__ *!*
> 𓆩`💘`𓆪 ~~𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠/𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝~~ 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐯𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 •’.*

> 𓏲𓂃 𝒋𝒐𝒊𝒏 𝒐𝒖𝒓 __𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒖𝒏𝒊𝒕𝒚 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚__ !
꒰ა ‧ —————⋅⋆‧˚ `🌙` ˚‧⋆⋅————— ‧ ໒꒱
  • anime   community   fortnite   valorant   dating
Last Boop: 3 days ago
18+OTHER

Ultimate Furry Dating

1142 members (247 online)
18+ Furry Dating Server with ID verification!
Friendly mod staff!
Dedicated Minecraft Server.
Extremely active server!
Fast-growing!
Intro, Looking for DMs and reaction roles channels to express yourself.
Relaxed atmosphere.
LGBTQ+ Friendly
  • furry   community   dating   LGBT   social
Last Boop: 7 days ago
25+community

The Rendezvous

136 members (40 online)
🌹 The Rendezvous 🌹
Where confident Asian men and amazing women come together. A safe, welcoming, and drama-free community built for mature conversations, genuine friendships, and real connections. LGBTQ+ friendly, women-ran, and always supportive.

✨ Whether you’re here to meet new friends, enjoy playful banter, dive into late-night chats, or maybe spark something deeper, you’ll always find good vibes and great people waiting.

Server Specs 🔎

🔞 25+ Only — mature & respectful

💬 Active Chats — casual, deep, and everything in between

❤️ Connections & Friendships — meet confident women & genuine men

🎉 Community Events — games, movie nights, and real-life meetups

🏳️‍🌈 Inclusive & Safe — LGBTQ+ friendly, judgment-free

🚫 No Drama / No Lurking — we grow together by showing up

✨ Final Word: The Rendezvous is more than a server — it’s a safe, welcoming space to be yourself, meet amazing people, and build real connections. Come join us, your seat is already waiting.
  • community   dating   social   interracial   amxf
Last Boop: 11 days ago
18+OTHER

Straya Dating

490 members (142 online)
The place to meet mates and maybe find your soulmate!
Aussie based server open to all and Neurodivergent and LGBTQ+ friendly
  • dating   australia   social   gaming   nsfw
Last Boop: 89 days ago
18+OTHER

Glitch Haven 18

47 members (18 online)
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# 💘 Welcome to Cupid’s Haven 💘
***Your one-stop destination for love, laughter, and lasting connections!***
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︱✨ ***What We Offer:***
︱➵❥ 🌹 **Dating & Friendship** – Whether you’re looking for your perfect match or a new bestie, our server is the perfect place to connect.
︱➵❥ 🎯 ** Cupid Bots** – Let our bots shoot their arrows and help you have fun!!
︱➵❥ 💌 **Romantic Icebreakers** – Fun games, questions, and prompts to get conversations started.
︱➵❥ 🎉 **Event Nights** – Speed dating, movie marathons, game nights, and more to bring the community closer!
︱➵❥ 🌈 **LGBTQ+ Inclusive** – Everyone is welcome to find love and friendships here, no matter your identity.
︱➵❥ ✨ **Aesthetic Vibes** – Beautifully designed channels and roles that match the love-filled theme.
︱➵❥ 🎵 **Chill Music & Voice Chats** – Share your favorite songs or hang out in cozy VC rooms.
︱➵❥ 💖 **Safe & Welcoming Community** – Our active mod team ensures a safe space for everyone ︱to thrive.
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︱📌 **Who’s Cupid’s Haven For?**
︱➵❥ Singles searching for love 💕
︱➵❥ Friends looking to bond 🤝
︱➵❥ Those who want a cozy hangout ╰┄┄┄┄┄┄┄┄┄┄┄┄┄┄┄┄┄╯
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︱ ➵❥ 🔗 ***Join Us Today!***
︱ ➵❥ Love might just be one click away
︱https://discord.gg/sNQV5Fbx
〡 ➵❥ Don’t let Cupid’s arrow miss you!💘
︱https://tenor.com/view/ca-cupid-ever-after-high-gif-22366328
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  • dating   lgbtq   community   hangout   fun
Last Boop: Never
18+OTHER

aroace cat themed server!!

0 members (0 online)
CAT THEMED SERVER

𐙚 a poly matchmaking server!
𐙚 non toxic community!
𐙚 fast matchmaking!

we hope to see you soon! :D
  • poly   matchmaking   dating   polyam   polyamorous
Last Boop: Never
18+gaming

huzz hub (18+)

0 members (0 online)
⚡HUZZ HUB — 18+ Social & Gaming Hub ⚡

A laid-back place for adults who want to meet new people, game together, and hang out without the nonsense.

What to expect:

• 18+ only — chill, mature vibes
• Active chats & VCs
• Gaming sessions for all types
• Aesthetic, clean layout
• Friendly people, easy conversations

No overhype, no weird energy — just a solid community for hanging out, making friends, and finding people to play with.

Join in when you’re ready.
  • social   dating   gaming   friends   18+
Last Boop: Never
18+OTHER

Sesh & Chill (18+)

0 members (0 online)
⋆ ★ ⋆ 🍃 Sesh & Chill 18+ ☕ ⋆ ★ ⋆

💥A place where chaos meets comfort🍹
We’re a bunch of mates who love a sesh, a laugh, and a bit of mayhem—looking for more like-minded legends to join the fun. Mostly Brits & Aussies, but all are welcome. No egos, no weird vibes, just a solid crew.

What’s Inside:
⋆ ★ ⋆ 😮‍💨 A laid-back, no-pressure space to talk absolute nonsense
⋆ ★ ⋆ ❎ Unfiltered banter, semi-toxic but never dull
⋆ ★ ⋆ 🔞 NSFW access (ID verification required—no creeps allowed)
⋆ ★ ⋆ 🎙️ Active voice chats & semi toxic banter
⋆ ★ ⋆ 🫂 A great place to make new friends and unwind
⋆ ★ ⋆ 🚀 Boost & invite perks because loyalty gets rewarded for boosting & inviting friends
⋆ ★ ⋆ 🎁 Monthly chaos—giveaways, competitions, and whatever else we cook up

Join us now! or dont...
  • dating   18+   nsfw   community   egirls
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